How we understand the pronoun I in me can be a matter of life or death or imposter syndrome, particularly for male youths and young men although the sharing of a dysfunctional internalized status with females has narrowed the disparities without reducing the male vulnerability caused by the use of conflated self conception derived from the I of from the sea we in our villages of origin.

There can be a clear awareness of a symmetry in a human Me~Mind during one time forward lifetime where the knowable unnameable is present. Performance in sport or entertainment and artistic creation, can cause a visceral experiences in the present that cannot be described in words and often if not always in some lived experiences provides a moment when the I of me is absent. The knowable unnameable reveals itself in our mind and how we respond belies our habitual psychological and cultural responses. Shamans throughout the ages have struggled with their capacity to influence and who they are in their village of origin.

We may witness or participate in non ordinary states and they cannot be adequately, accurately or plausibly be called I in me. The issue is at the root of fearful confusion that causes conflation of the I in me with the self in me and we can erroneously convince ourselves that we should kill ourselves because the self is being derived using the I in me.